Author: isiahm

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2016 is the best year for your relationship yet

I love the new year. It always feels like such a time of freshness and opportunity, where we can let go of what no longer serves us and begin again. I’m seeing so much around me at the moment on planning for the new year, setting new year’s resolutions and goals,

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Caterpillar Soup

A couple of days ago, I was talking with some my girlfriends about where I’ve been these past couple of weeks. I feel like I’ve been in a bit of a cocoon - being on retreat in Byron, spending time with family and friends in Melbourne and then returning to Sydney.

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It’s not about you

Do you ever feel like your partner’s reaction doesn’t fit the situation you’re in? Like perhaps they’re over-reacting? Or accusing you of doing something you’re not actually doing? It’s frustrating. And confusing. What’s happening often isn’t actually about you or the situation you’re in at all. We all repeat patterns in our lives. We see

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You can make a difference

A couple of weeks ago, I shared with you that my partner and I had been reconsidering our relationship. Following a particularly challenge time together with almost the same arguments re-surfacing, we talked and decided to keep working on things together. Firstly, let me tell you that it hasn’t always been easy.

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I admire anyone in a relationship

I’m sitting in a kind of stunned, vulnerable humility this week.  And also a deep sense of awe.   I admire anyone who’s in a relationship, anyone who’s ever been in a relationship and anyone brave enough to acknowledge the longing for deep, intimate connection with a partner. Relationships can be tough. 

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5 Surprising Benefits of Tantra

Tantra is a hot topic at the moment. I’m being asked about it more and more by people showing up to my workshops and private sessions. It really is an amazing practice. Although Tantra is an ancient practice, it’s still incredibly practical and relevant today. Previously I’ve shared with you my story and

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5 Things I wish Men Knew About Women and Sex

Maintain a satisfying, loving, thriving sex life involves emotional and relationship factors like spending time together, trust, openness, generosity and intimacy. But this isn’t all we need. It’s also vital that we understand how our bodies work, discover the mechanics of pleasure and know the differences between masculine and feminine sexual energy. That’s

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This brought tears to my eyes

I fell in love with my partner even more this week. I want to tell you what he did because I know this is something that causes HUGE tension for other couples.  Actually, it’s caused huge tension for us in the past too, but this week my love got it spot

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6 Relationship habits all really happy long-term couples have

We all tend to fall into a routine in long-term relationships. We make habits and rituals as a couple that help shape and define our lives together. Perhaps it’s going to breakfast on a Saturday morning, one partner making the bed while the other makes coffee or a particular way of celebrating

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