Isiah McKimmie & Relationship Harmony
Couples Therapy,
Relationship Counselling
& Sexology
Most couples therapists never ask about intimacy. Most sex therapists never address communication. We do both, so your relationship can thrive.
A relationship you love
is closer than you think
Whatever’s brought you here, it’s possible to feel close again — to laugh together, enjoy each other, and stop worrying about your relationship.
You're at a crossroads
You don’t want your relationship to end, but you know you can’t keep going the way you are. You may feel stuck in the same patterns, worn down by unresolved tension, or quietly drifting further apart. Perhaps intimacy has faded, trust has been shaken, or the emotional distance feels heavier than you want to admit.
Get started →Something's missing, and you can't quite name it
You’re successful in most areas of your life and you have a great relationship. But there’s one part you can’t quite work out — and it’s frustrating, because you’re used to being able to sort things out.
Get started →You're experiencing challenges with sexuality, and you're not sure where to go
If sex has become something you worry about rather than enjoy, if you’re experiencing challenges with function, or desire has changed — we can help.
Get started →You've been referred, and you're not quite sure what to expect
Maybe your GP, psychologist, or another practitioner suggested you get in touch. You might be navigating changes in desire, pain, performance concerns, or a physical or medical issue that’s affecting your sex life. We provide safe, non-judgmental support.
Get started →Hi, I'm Isiah
I know how it feels to want more from your relationship, more closeness, more ease, more of that feeling that you're genuinely a team. After almost two decades working with couples, I've seen what's possible when people get the right support. And I've built my practice around making that possible for you.
We offer premium relationship counselling, couples therapy, and sexology for individuals and couples who want to strengthen connection, improve communication, and create deeply satisfying relationships.
I'm a Couples Therapist, Psychotherapist and Sexologist, with Masters degrees in Relational Psychotherapy and Psychosexual Therapy, and advanced training in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy. You may have also seen me on Channel 7.
Today, I'm proud to lead a growing team of Relationship Counsellors, Couples Therapists and Sexologists, all passionate about supporting people like you. I personally train every therapist here, so whoever you work with, you're in expert hands.
Isiah xHow we can help
Relationship counselling and sexology
In person or online, using a research-informed approach. We begin with a comprehensive assessment, so you know exactly where you're starting from and why.
Learn more →Lovers retreats
Immersive, structured experiences in a private setting. The kind of reset that months of regular life can't give you.
Learn more →Online courses
Self-paced programs to help you understand your relationship and work through common challenges on your own timeline.
Learn more →Professional Development
Training and supervision for therapists and health professionals wanting to integrate relationship and sexuality work into their practice..
Learn more →Nonjudgmental care across a wide range of
relationship and intimacy concerns
We work with individuals and couples from all walks of life, including all sexual orientations, gender identities and relationship dynamics. People of all faiths, cultural backgrounds and belief systems are welcome here.
Proven strategies and practical tools built on decades of research.
Therapy, at least with myself and my team, isn't about focusing on problems or digging up issues from the past. It's about creating strategies for moving forward using practical tools, information, understanding, and positivity so you can have the most loving relationship and fulfilling sex life possible.
Vision & Assessment
We begin by getting clear on your goals and current strengths. We also do a comprehensive, research-based assessment to create an individual treatment plan for you.
Connection
Rebuilding emotional closeness, trust, and the sense of genuine partnership that relationships need to thrive.
Communication
We build the foundations for real conversation, breaking cycles that keep you stuck and creating new patterns that actually last.
Intimacy
Integrating physical and emotional intimacy, because this is the area where most relationship therapy stops short. We don't.
See Relationship Harmony
in action
Start with the book.
A practical guide to better communication, deeper connection, and lasting intimacy, written for couples who want to understand what's really going on, and what to do about it.
A companion to the work we do together, or a meaningful place to begin on your own.
What's your
Pleasure Signature?
The Pleasure Signature Quiz helps you understand what genuinely turns you on, why, and how to explain it to your partner without the awkwardness. Most couples never have this conversation because they don't know where to start. This gives you the words.
Expect a few minutes, a handful of questions, and a clearer sense of what you need to feel truly present and satisfied, on your own and together.
The first step to deeper intimacy is awareness.
Learn MoreOur Patients Are Having Sex
Real conversations about what actually goes on in couples therapy — the breakthroughs, the hard moments, and everything in between. Hosted by Isiah McKimmie.
Gender, Sexuality &
Staying Curious
What happens when your gender expression doesn't match what the world expects? Rudi Landmann, trans woman, parent, and sexuality educator — shares her journey and what it means for how we understand identity.
Kink, Consent &
the "Football Test"
Sexuality educator Roger Butler joins Isiah to unpack kink, BDSM, fetishes, and the slippery idea of "normal", with a simple reframe that changes how we think about desire entirely.
The Vaginal Microbiome and
Sexual Health
A fascinating conversation with Dr. Moira Bradfield Strydom on how the vaginal microbiome affects sexual health, desire, and wellbeing — and why partner communication matters more than you think.
What couples say when
they work with us.
There are so many ways we've changed since we started seeing you Isiah, but they've all added up to us having a closer, more intimate, loving and sexual relationship with each other.
Thank you for making this process, which could have been much more uncomfortable, as easy as possible. We feel connected now and it's more fun. Initiating intimacy feels easier and pleasure comes easier.
Everyone should do this. We are really open about our sessions with Isiah, the reaction of friends is often 'oh no! That's not good'. But it shouldn't be like that, things shouldn't be falling apart before you work on them. We are firm believers that you should take preventive actions.
Growing up, I felt ashamed about my curiosity and fascination with sexuality. Isiah has empowered me to take charge of my sexuality and embrace being a sensual woman. My time with Isiah has been life changing.
Not sure what
you need yet?
Take the free relationship quiz and get a personalised insight into what's really going on, and where to focus first.
Take the Free Quiz