Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore.
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore.
Previous studies tell us something alarming:
Couples wait an average of seven years from the time challenges begin to the moment they reach out for help.
Seven years of hoping things improve on their own.
Seven years of avoiding the uncomfortable conversations.
Seven years of small disconnections becoming entrenched patterns.
This new research expands on that timeline by showing exactly what happens in the years leading up to a breakup — and why so many couples feel blindsided even when the signs have been present for a long time.
Becoming parents doesn’t usually break a relationship.
What changes is how partners connect, communicate, and feel desired — often without the words to name what’s happening.
In this episode of Our Patients Are Having Sex, Isiah is joined by relationship and parenthood specialist Elly Taylor to explore one of the most overlooked transitions in a couple’s life: intimacy after baby.
It’s a conversation many couples wish they’d heard earlier.
Happy couples aren’t the ones who never struggle.
They’re the ones who know how to repair, reconnect, and change patterns before distance becomes resentment.
This article explores what truly makes relationships thrive — and how couples can learn the skills that create lasting connection.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
When people think about broken trust in a relationship, infidelity is usually what comes to mind first. But trust breaks in plenty of other ways too – and these ruptures deserve just as much attention.
“I just wish I felt in the mood.” “I still love my partner, I just don’t feel the ‘urge’ anymore.” “Is there some kind of pill I can take?” “I enjoy it when we do do it, I just can’t
Sex can be one of the most difficult topics for any of us to talk about. It’s especially difficult if you’re experiencing challenges, have a mismatched libido or are in a sexless marriage.
Thought about trying something new in the bedroom but don’t know how to approach it? Want your partner to do something different, but you don’t want to hurt their feelings? Or is your partner asking for more direction, and you’re just not sure what to tell them?
You’re not alone. In an ideal world, it would be great if your partner knew when you were in the mood and what works for you, but unfortunately, this isn’t always the case.
Having conversations about sex can be daunting! But talking openly about your desires and boundaries in the bedroom strengthens emotional intimacy and leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling sexual connection. It’s one of the most powerful steps you can take to enhance your sexual enjoyment.
Not sure where to start? I’ve developed some helpful strategies and sexual communication tips to approach the topic so you can have the great sex you deserve.
“I just wish I felt in the mood.” “I still love my partner, I just don’t feel the ‘urge’ anymore.” “Is there some kind of pill I can take?” “I enjoy it when we do do it, I just can’t
Sex can be one of the most difficult topics for any of us to talk about. It’s especially difficult if you’re experiencing challenges, have a mismatched libido or are in a sexless marriage.
Great orgasms require just the right amount of tension and relaxation. Sex pillows can provide just a slight difference in the angle of pressure or penetration and can make a big difference to your pleasure.
Whether it’s divorce, a relationship breakdown, a lost job, business failure or unexpected life shift – these things that we often think of as devastating at the time – can really propel our lives to somewhere different and much more amazing than we had planned.
If you are struggling with your partner right now, I want you to know you’re not alone – many are experiencing heightened tensions. This is going to be make or break time for many relationships. I want to help ensure you’re one who makes it.
Some people would question whether the G-spot actually exists but one thing is for sure, once you’ll find it, you’ll never look back! Listen in to find out all about the G-spot.
Whether it’s divorce, a relationship breakdown, a lost job, business failure or unexpected life shift – these things that we often think of as devastating at the time – can really propel our lives to somewhere different and much more amazing than we had planned.
Humans are wired for connection. What happens when we don’t get it? With the possibility of lockdown continuing for weeks to come, I want to share some advice for surviving on your own.
If you are struggling with your partner right now, I want you to know you’re not alone – many are experiencing heightened tensions. This is going to be make or break time for many relationships. I want to help ensure you’re one who makes it.
In 2009, after I had been studying Tantra for several years, I went to a workshop that I thought would be like others I had
Struggling with self-criticism during sex? Learn how to stop judging yourself in the bedroom and feel more present, confident, and connected. Can I tell you
Women’s sexual desire can seem like a mystery. One minute it’s here and the next it isn’t. And you have no idea where it went.
Discover 3 simple yet powerful ways to deepen your connection with your partner in just 15 minutes a day. When we feel connected to our
How can you tell if you’ve had an orgasm? Do you ever feel like you’re close, but can’t quite get there? Perhaps some women just
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
When people think about broken trust in a relationship, infidelity is usually what comes to mind first. But trust breaks in plenty of other ways too – and these ruptures deserve just as much attention.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
If you’ve looked into couples therapy, you’ve likely come across the Gottman Method. It’s one of the most well-researched approaches to couples therapy available, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman following decades of observational research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.
Understanding what the method actually involves can help you decide whether it might be the right fit for you and your partner.
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
When people think about broken trust in a relationship, infidelity is usually what comes to mind first. But trust breaks in plenty of other ways too – and these ruptures deserve just as much attention.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
If you’ve looked into couples therapy, you’ve likely come across the Gottman Method. It’s one of the most well-researched approaches to couples therapy available, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman following decades of observational research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.
Understanding what the method actually involves can help you decide whether it might be the right fit for you and your partner.
Menopause is still one of the most under-discussed transitions in women’s health, and one of the most misunderstood in the context of relationships. For many women, it’s a significant shift in how they experience their body, their emotions, their energy, and their sexuality. And for couples, it often becomes a quietly destabilising force, one that neither person quite has the language for.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
If you’ve looked into couples therapy, you’ve likely come across the Gottman Method. It’s one of the most well-researched approaches to couples therapy available, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman following decades of observational research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.
Understanding what the method actually involves can help you decide whether it might be the right fit for you and your partner.
Happy couples aren’t the ones who never struggle.
They’re the ones who know how to repair, reconnect, and change patterns before distance becomes resentment.
This article explores what truly makes relationships thrive — and how couples can learn the skills that create lasting connection.
January is often called “divorce month,” but most breakups are not sudden. They’re the result of years of unresolved disconnection, conflict, and avoidance. This article explores why separations peak in January, the early signs a relationship is struggling, and how couples therapy can help couples find clarity before it’s too late..
Becoming parents doesn’t usually break a relationship.
What changes is how partners connect, communicate, and feel desired — often without the words to name what’s happening.
In this episode of Our Patients Are Having Sex, Isiah is joined by relationship and parenthood specialist Elly Taylor to explore one of the most overlooked transitions in a couple’s life: intimacy after baby.
It’s a conversation many couples wish they’d heard earlier.
Previous studies tell us something alarming:
Couples wait an average of seven years from the time challenges begin to the moment they reach out for help.
Seven years of hoping things improve on their own.
Seven years of avoiding the uncomfortable conversations.
Seven years of small disconnections becoming entrenched patterns.
This new research expands on that timeline by showing exactly what happens in the years leading up to a breakup — and why so many couples feel blindsided even when the signs have been present for a long time.
We’ve all seen the rise of artificial intelligence in our daily lives – from chatbots that schedule our appointments to apps that remember our coffee orders. But recently, something much more intimate has emerged: AI companions.
These digital partners are designed to offer conversation, empathy, and even romance. Platforms like Replika, Kindroid, and Gnomi promise human-like interactions that learn from you and respond just how you’d like.
I recently spoke about this growing trend on The Morning Show. It’s easy to see the appeal of a partner who’s always available, endlessly patient, and never argues. But as a relationship therapist and sexologist, I can’t help but ask: What does our growing connection with AI say about love, intimacy, and our emotional needs today?
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Previous studies tell us something alarming:
Couples wait an average of seven years from the time challenges begin to the moment they reach out for help.
Seven years of hoping things improve on their own.
Seven years of avoiding the uncomfortable conversations.
Seven years of small disconnections becoming entrenched patterns.
This new research expands on that timeline by showing exactly what happens in the years leading up to a breakup — and why so many couples feel blindsided even when the signs have been present for a long time.
Becoming parents doesn’t usually break a relationship.
What changes is how partners connect, communicate, and feel desired — often without the words to name what’s happening.
In this episode of Our Patients Are Having Sex, Isiah is joined by relationship and parenthood specialist Elly Taylor to explore one of the most overlooked transitions in a couple’s life: intimacy after baby.
It’s a conversation many couples wish they’d heard earlier.
Happy couples aren’t the ones who never struggle.
They’re the ones who know how to repair, reconnect, and change patterns before distance becomes resentment.
This article explores what truly makes relationships thrive — and how couples can learn the skills that create lasting connection.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
When people think about broken trust in a relationship, infidelity is usually what comes to mind first. But trust breaks in plenty of other ways too – and these ruptures deserve just as much attention.
“I just wish I felt in the mood.” “I still love my partner, I just don’t feel the ‘urge’ anymore.” “Is there some kind of
Sex can be one of the most difficult topics for any of us to talk about. It’s especially difficult if you’re experiencing challenges, have a mismatched libido or are in a sexless marriage.
Thought about trying something new in the bedroom but don’t know how to approach it? Want your partner to do something different, but you don’t want to hurt their feelings? Or is your partner asking for more direction, and you’re just not sure what to tell them?
You’re not alone. In an ideal world, it would be great if your partner knew when you were in the mood and what works for you, but unfortunately, this isn’t always the case.
Having conversations about sex can be daunting! But talking openly about your desires and boundaries in the bedroom strengthens emotional intimacy and leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling sexual connection. It’s one of the most powerful steps you can take to enhance your sexual enjoyment.
Not sure where to start? I’ve developed some helpful strategies and sexual communication tips to approach the topic so you can have the great sex you deserve.
“I just wish I felt in the mood.” “I still love my partner, I just don’t feel the ‘urge’ anymore.” “Is there some kind of
Sex can be one of the most difficult topics for any of us to talk about. It’s especially difficult if you’re experiencing challenges, have a mismatched libido or are in a sexless marriage.
Great orgasms require just the right amount of tension and relaxation. Sex pillows can provide just a slight difference in the angle of pressure or penetration and can make a big difference to your pleasure.
Whether it’s divorce, a relationship breakdown, a lost job, business failure or unexpected life shift – these things that we often think of as devastating at the time – can really propel our lives to somewhere different and much more amazing than we had planned.
If you are struggling with your partner right now, I want you to know you’re not alone – many are experiencing heightened tensions. This is going to be make or break time for many relationships. I want to help ensure you’re one who makes it.
Some people would question whether the G-spot actually exists but one thing is for sure, once you’ll find it, you’ll never look back! Listen in to find out all about the G-spot.
Whether it’s divorce, a relationship breakdown, a lost job, business failure or unexpected life shift – these things that we often think of as devastating at the time – can really propel our lives to somewhere different and much more amazing than we had planned.
Humans are wired for connection. What happens when we don’t get it? With the possibility of lockdown continuing for weeks to come, I want to share some advice for surviving on your own.
If you are struggling with your partner right now, I want you to know you’re not alone – many are experiencing heightened tensions. This is going to be make or break time for many relationships. I want to help ensure you’re one who makes it.
In 2009, after I had been studying Tantra for several years, I went to a workshop that I thought would be like others I had
Struggling with self-criticism during sex? Learn how to stop judging yourself in the bedroom and feel more present, confident, and connected. Can I tell you
Women’s sexual desire can seem like a mystery. One minute it’s here and the next it isn’t. And you have no idea where it went.
Discover 3 simple yet powerful ways to deepen your connection with your partner in just 15 minutes a day. When we feel connected to our
How can you tell if you’ve had an orgasm? Do you ever feel like you’re close, but can’t quite get there? Perhaps some women just
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
When people think about broken trust in a relationship, infidelity is usually what comes to mind first. But trust breaks in plenty of other ways too – and these ruptures deserve just as much attention.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
If you’ve looked into couples therapy, you’ve likely come across the Gottman Method. It’s one of the most well-researched approaches to couples therapy available, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman following decades of observational research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.
Understanding what the method actually involves can help you decide whether it might be the right fit for you and your partner.
Are you an Opener or a Closer in conflict? Learn the communication style behind your recurring arguments – and how to bridge it with your partner.
When people think about broken trust in a relationship, infidelity is usually what comes to mind first. But trust breaks in plenty of other ways too – and these ruptures deserve just as much attention.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
If you’ve looked into couples therapy, you’ve likely come across the Gottman Method. It’s one of the most well-researched approaches to couples therapy available, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman following decades of observational research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.
Understanding what the method actually involves can help you decide whether it might be the right fit for you and your partner.
Menopause is still one of the most under-discussed transitions in women’s health, and one of the most misunderstood in the context of relationships. For many women, it’s a significant shift in how they experience their body, their emotions, their energy, and their sexuality. And for couples, it often becomes a quietly destabilising force, one that neither person quite has the language for.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sex starts out fun and exciting. It happens often, easily, without much thought.
Then life happens. You get busy. Tired. Very familiar with each other. And at some point, you notice something has shifted. Sex doesn’t happen very often anymore. When it does, there’s not much enthusiasm behind it. It tends to look the same every time, if it happens at all.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
Sexology is one of those fields that people have heard of but often feel uncertain about. What does a sexologist actually do? Is it different from a sex therapist? Do you have to have a serious problem to see one?
These are questions I get regularly. So let me answer them directly.
If you’ve looked into couples therapy, you’ve likely come across the Gottman Method. It’s one of the most well-researched approaches to couples therapy available, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman following decades of observational research on what makes relationships succeed or fail.
Understanding what the method actually involves can help you decide whether it might be the right fit for you and your partner.
Happy couples aren’t the ones who never struggle.
They’re the ones who know how to repair, reconnect, and change patterns before distance becomes resentment.
This article explores what truly makes relationships thrive — and how couples can learn the skills that create lasting connection.
January is often called “divorce month,” but most breakups are not sudden. They’re the result of years of unresolved disconnection, conflict, and avoidance. This article explores why separations peak in January, the early signs a relationship is struggling, and how couples therapy can help couples find clarity before it’s too late..
Becoming parents doesn’t usually break a relationship.
What changes is how partners connect, communicate, and feel desired — often without the words to name what’s happening.
In this episode of Our Patients Are Having Sex, Isiah is joined by relationship and parenthood specialist Elly Taylor to explore one of the most overlooked transitions in a couple’s life: intimacy after baby.
It’s a conversation many couples wish they’d heard earlier.
Previous studies tell us something alarming:
Couples wait an average of seven years from the time challenges begin to the moment they reach out for help.
Seven years of hoping things improve on their own.
Seven years of avoiding the uncomfortable conversations.
Seven years of small disconnections becoming entrenched patterns.
This new research expands on that timeline by showing exactly what happens in the years leading up to a breakup — and why so many couples feel blindsided even when the signs have been present for a long time.
We’ve all seen the rise of artificial intelligence in our daily lives – from chatbots that schedule our appointments to apps that remember our coffee orders. But recently, something much more intimate has emerged: AI companions.
These digital partners are designed to offer conversation, empathy, and even romance. Platforms like Replika, Kindroid, and Gnomi promise human-like interactions that learn from you and respond just how you’d like.
I recently spoke about this growing trend on The Morning Show. It’s easy to see the appeal of a partner who’s always available, endlessly patient, and never argues. But as a relationship therapist and sexologist, I can’t help but ask: What does our growing connection with AI say about love, intimacy, and our emotional needs today?
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