I love giving oral sex to my lover.
There’s something deeply intimate and incredibly arousing about oral sex to me.
Giving oral sex is an almost guaranteed way for me to turn myself on… But more important than that, it also opens my heart. It feels like a gift I’m giving my partner. It requires trust and surrender, especially if I’m in the mood to take my lover deep. I need to trust that he’ll pay attention to me and not push too far. I need to feel like he’s connected to me and appreciating me.
I know that not everyone shares my enthusiasm for it… It’s one of those contentious issues that shows up with couples I work with in therapy sometimes.
Believe me, I get it.
I understand how it isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.
In today’s podcast I’m talking to Roger from Curious Creatures about oral sex. We share:
- Our likes and dislikes
- How to talk about oral
- How you can learn to feel more comfortable giving oral sex (if you want to)
