Looking for a way to change things up in the bedroom that doesn’t require pretzel-bending acrobatics or something overly kinky?
A sex pillow could be for you.
Your comfort during sex is vital to your enjoyment. But great orgasms require just the right amount of tension and relaxation.
While variety in positions is great for keeping playfulness alive, that is sometimes easier said than done. Finding the right position for this can prove challenging and might leave you resorting to a couple of tried and tested favourites.
I’ll be the first to put my hand up and acknowledge that flexibility has never been a strength for me. (Shamefully, at a family Christmas a couple of years ago, my grandmother calmly showed how her regular water aerobics classes had helped her touch her toes. Meanwhile, I was doing well to reach just below my knees.)
Varying sexual positions is helpful, because just a slight difference in the angle of pressure or penetration can make a big difference to your pleasure.
This is exactly where a sex pillow can be helpful. Here are 5 ways they can be a game-changer in the bedroom:
- Increases your comfort and relaxation
- Allows deeper penetration
- Helps with G-spot access
- Takes the pressure off your back and knees
- Allows more access to your clitoris and sensitive regions
So what is a sex pillow?
A sex pillow is a specially designed pillow that supports your body during sex. They can help you stay in positions that might otherwise be uncomfortable, help change the angle and depth of penetration and increase the likelihood of you reaching orgasm.
Sex pillows can be particularly beneficial for people experiencing body pain, limited mobility, sore joints or painful sex.
That being said – they’re good for anyone who wants to increase their comfort and variety.
You can use them to change the angle of your pelvis while in missionary position, to support you in doggy style or anal sex, or even during oral sex.
My current recommendation as the pillow to start with is the Liberator Jaz Motion.
If you think you need a higher level of support – go for the Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo which gives you more support and versatility.